For managers, developing others' abilities is critical, but it takes the right talent to bring out these skill sets. Research suggests the best coaches show a genuine personal interest in those they guide, and have empathy for and an understanding of their employees. Trust is crucial— when there is little trust in the coach, advice goes unheeded. This also happens when the coach is impersonal and cold, or the relationship seems too one-sided or self-serving. Coaches who show respect, trustworthiness and empathy are the best.

Today, Promotional Consultant Today shares these tips for effective sales coaching.

One way to encourage people to perform better is to let others take the lead in setting their own goals rather than dictating the terms and manner of their development. This communicates the belief that employees have the capacity to be the pilot of their own destiny.

Another technique is to point to the problems without offering a solution: this implies the employees can find the solution themselves. And people hunger for feedback, yet too many managers, supervisors and executives are inept at giving it or are simply disinclined to provide any. Virtually everyone who has a superior is part of at least one vertical "couple" in the workplace; every boss forms such a bond with each subordinate. Such vertical couples are a basic unit of organizational life.

Therein lies the blessing or the curse: This interdependence ties a subordinate and superior together in a way that can become highly charged. If both do well emotionally— if they form a relationship of trust and rapport, understanding and inspired effort— their performance will shine. But if things go emotionally awry, the relationship can become a nightmare and their performance can become a series of minor and major disasters. While vertical couples have the entire emotional overlay that power and compliance bring to a relationship, peer couples— relationships with co-workers— have a parallel emotional component, something akin to the pleasures, jealousies and rivalries of siblings.

If there is anywhere emotional intelligence needs to enter an organization, it is at this most basic level. Building collaborative and fruitful relationships begins with the couples we are a part of at work.

Bringing emotional intelligence to a working relationship can pitch it towards the evolving, creative, mutually engaging end of the continuum; failing to do so heightens the risk of a downward drift towards rigidity, stalemate and failure.

Source: Jonathan Farrington is a keynote speaker, business coach, mentor, author, consultant, and sales strategist, who has guided hundreds of companies and more than a hundred thousand frontline salespeople and sales leaders towards optimum performance levels. He is also the senior partner at Jonathan Farrington & Associates, CEO of Top Sales World and the co-editor of Top Sales magazine.